Showing posts with label mind. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mind. Show all posts

Wednesday, 18 February 2015

Hola Me-Hi-Co!


I enjoy travelling and seeing new places so you can imagine my delight when I realized I was going to be on a plane to Me-Hi-Co! We (my husband and I) had done our research and we had two cities in mind- Cancun vs Consumel. Based on talk and generic perception, Mexico is usually used in the same sentence with drugs and all, yet this did not deter me because as a Nigerian, judging the whole country because of some miscreant is the summary of ‘The Danger of a Single Story’ and it is something I am all too familiar with.


From Miami, we had a two hours plane ride to Mexico and on our landing, it was Hola (Eng: Hi/Hello) all the way. The customs process was pretty much done without saying much. We didn’t understand the barrier of language yet. Our excitement over the warm weather was cool enough to compensate for every lack of comprehension.

As soon as we got out of the customs sliding doors, we see an array of car rental booths and their representatives catcalling but one of them got our attention. Why? He spoke English! Yes!
Asking where we were from and he mentioned he used to live in Atlanta as well! We spoke for a while about general things which is pretty much weird to be honest as he is expected to really try hard to make us get one of his cars. He gave us a map, showed us places to go to (Nigerians and reading maps are not mutually exclusive parties to be honest), told us to visit certain banks for currency exchange to the Mexican currency (Peso) but the most interesting part was after all the chit chat, he did try to sell us his car rental services and then directed us to his competitor who he said would offer us cheaper prices on the same deal! I know right?! We also noticed this to be the trend in some of the business people here in Mexico and very odd, it was highly valuable. Something tells me that in a matter of time, this method of referral would have a business terminology assigned to it.

Moving on, my first impression of Cancun Mexico was a place of friendliness, warmth and all things sunny.

Majority of the people we met were hardworking. Everywhere we went to, someone yes, is trying to sell something but they are not pushy like those in Vegas. We decided to walk down to the shopping mall and we loved it! It is the biggest mall in the downtown of Cancun, filled with numerous shops and a lot of floors. I found it interesting that the song they kept playing over the speakers were in English (probably because it has been figured that majority of their visitors are English speaking). The popular brand stores were very well represented- Gucci, Tommy Hilfiger, Louis Vuitton etc but one store had me squealing like a baby- Sally beauty supply store! Yes! We went it, looked around, tried to read the name of some of the products as my husband tried to find makeup wipes for me and at the end we gave up.

We visited Playa Tortugas, a beach that inspired some poem lines as we walked in the cool of the night; we couldn’t see much because it was literally pitch black, we saw body movements on the sand as we walked by, the ship was visible on the sea because the architecture has been decorated with lights, we hear voices created in delight, the source we have no idea of and all we cared for at that moment is the cool breeze, the silence and the fantasy that time has stood still.

I found a way to bring some of Atlanta into Me-Hi-Co and this always happened during breakfast. The hotel provided breakfast and I had the uncanny gift of putting together the yogurt and granola in a bowl and having an absolute blast as I devour it every morning. The road side restaurants have this Caribbean feel to them, open counters, odd wall paints, menu written with coloured chalk, wooden floors and music playing for all to hear. Their food is pretty good, burritos, tacos, and all the awesomeness that come inside of it.

So far so good here in Me-Hi-Co! The weather is weight-friendly (weight-friendly weather is the weather that has the ability to burn fat through your skin), I also noticed a similar physique among the men and women, most especially the men and during this visit, I also learnt that Nigerians have a similar physique as well. The people are very polite, speaking for those who we encountered; they keep speaking Spanish to you even if you do not understand a word, thanks to the representatives at Supreme, which is a Walmart subsidiary here in Cancun.

For the days I have spent here so far, four things you should note when visiting Cancun:
- Spanish is key! Just know some part of it and be ready to be be animated with your hands (body language)

- They were able to turn a small city into a tourist attraction. It should give you an idea of the kind of people you would meet here. Yes, there are reservations for foreigners as some establishments have made provision for English speaking customers.






-You can drive here with your American driving license. If you are observant you would be able to deduce the driving signs, like the below, its not rocket science to know it means STOP

-In some major stores, you can use your American credit card for shopping




- The below picture reminded me of some of the works of our Governor Fashola, what  do you think?

-Their currency is the Mexican Peso and the symbol is $ (Not exactly sure how or why) . Go to the banks to change to the Pesos if you want a great rate. We did but they kept redirecting us somewhere else. After much walking, we succumbed to the currency exchange shops and late realised there was a bank right next to our hotel that was offering better rates! Information is power! Their currency has an uncanny resemblance to the Nigerian Naira I must say.

-Their food is not strange. What I mean is, (depending on where you are from) their food were pretty understandable. It didn't feel like we were eating anything from Octopuses or Pigeons lol but actual food we understood.

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I could not resist myself from taking the below picture. Paloma is a name that we heard a lot when growing up with those soap operas! So here I have found Paloma Weddings!

Clearly, I am having a blast. It sure is a place to visit and there are lots of sites, beaches, and attractions to keep you occupied in a great way. Just the fact that you are in a environment with its own unique cultural behavior is mind enlightening, 
There is also the perception of spring breakers pitching their tent over here and we know what that connotes, but for the most part of our stay, it has been calm and most things are within arms' reach.

Stay tuned for more pictures but until then adiós

Tuesday, 19 March 2013

The word battle against cancer.


My Week has been quite interesting I must say! It started with my last blog http://somtospeaks.blogspot.co.uk/2013/03/forgiveness-is-not-of-mouthit-is-of.html I must say that it did lead to more than the usual amount of questions been asked from me and I was glad to be of help ;). I realise more that creativity and emotions are directly proportional to each other and if you doubt me ask Adele or Taylor Swift! LOL

For me, I tend to write easily inside my head towards a topic, a cause, a subject or an emotion I have passed through or have been a part of in one way or the other and that is why when I was invited to Coventry University Campus in London to present a poem on Cancer, my initial reaction as not at all. Why? I have never and will never have any first or second or 1 zillionth experience on it, so I knew it was going to be a very sensitive subject that required sensitive emotions and all I had was sensitive without the emotions; hence my research began.

The charity that organised the event is the http://www.teenagecancertrust.org/ . The teenage cancer trust in one words is Phenomenal. Their work, commitment and vision say it all. Vision- Our vision is a future where young people’s lives don’t stop because they have cancer. We make sure they’re treated as young people first, cancer patients second and everything we do aims to improve their quality of life and chances of survival.

 I moved from one section to another on the website and I am and was truly overwhelmed with emotions. As I read the stories of the young people who have been diagnosed with cancer and their constant victory in the face of pain, tears and weakness, life began to have a different meaning to me. Their perspective of life is so philosophical and makes you take a look at your life and ask yourself some soul searching questions.
One of the cancer patients who passed away has a fund raising project started in his memory and his father’s words on his memorial page ( http://www.teenagecancertrust.org/get-involved/as-a-fundraiser/fundraisers/in-memory-of-jack-chester/ ) says it all.

I find it ironical that sickness enhances ones appreciation for health and death makes one hug life with no remorse but as very busy bees with health perfection and life in 3D with the world to conquer, we get carried away with activities, working around like machines forgetting we are the resource and not the source. Now at this junction, I would like to ask you to say with me, Thank you God in Heaven for your unconditional gift of fulfilled life and perfect health you have graced me with. I appreciate you and I am eternally grateful.
So, after the many emotions contrasting each other, my ploy to write a cancer piece got worse and I was stuck. Literally. I didn't know where to write from… the point of life or the realisation of death. The angle of victory or the battlefield of survival. The focus on appreciation or the limelight of retrospect….

I was stuck…. And then I decided to write this blog a day before the event, and as I do the event tomorrow I would continue writing below on how it went, maybe lessons learnt along the way from today to tomorrow and hopefully  a video when it is out and live!

Hello there!

Shaking like a leaf in the cold is an understatement on how I was prior to been called on the stage. I tried not to make my piece too serious but I knew that I didn't succeed at that, when everyone was completely silent in the auditorium. Silently silent! And I loved every second of every emphasis I put on every word because I knew that I had their attention.

I was able to analyse the characteristics of cancer alongside the characteristics of the mind and this also made me reflect on what kind of thoughts I breed. Thoughts after thoughts, cells after cells, word after word, if one is wrong, it is all a matter of time, all will be wrong.

An excerpt of my piece ‘Do you know that Cancer is not written in the face? That is why you look at someone and cannot tell they have cancer. I look at you and I do not know what you are thinking. Everyone looks normal from the outside, happy, excited, maybe troubled, but for how long?
Cancer is not written on the face, but it does not stay hidden forever. Your thoughts are not written on your face but it will not stay wrapped up forever. Cancer and our thoughts have the same way of exposing themselves, thorough our lives. A single tumor can affect the nerves by putting pressure on it and a single thought out of control can put pressure on any part of our lives.’

Few hours prior to leaving work to the venue, my very own took me through some exercise, he said 'focus, relax you can do this' and yes we did!

It was a very wonderful experience for me and the feedback was humbling taking into consideration that I had few days to prepare on a subject not too familiar. 
For this reason and more, I have consciously decided I would be writing more on things that are outside of me, reaching forth to experiences not yet felt and creating feelings in dimensions, hoping my mind and hand can translate it to some words, that would touch my world. :)

Few things learnt:
Everyone appreciates/or not the finished product but not all can understand the production process. (Another blog for another day).

Out of your comfort zone, lies the uncomfortable strength you are afraid of.

Appreciate life, every moment you can. Do something out of your daily routine every moment you remember. It is your life, a present given to you by God, show Him that you are enjoying it ;)

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